For Caregivers

Caregivers have an arduous job. Many people think caregivers just help sick people. However, it's much more complex than that, especially for full-time caregivers. Caretaking involves everyday responsibilities such as doctors appointments, medical treatments and medication management. But let us not forget meal management and housekeeping duties. Oh yes, caregivers also assist in the physical needs of their loved ones. Which includes seeing to the personal needs of the recipient like bathing, catheters and even fecal disposal. These are just a few of the many duties caregivers offer to their loved ones.

Although caregivers do so much for their person out of love, it can be demanding on the body and mind. The physical and emotional toll on the caregiver can be overwhelming. With their primary focus on their loved one, caregivers can feel isolated and lonely. They need support as well.

If you're a caregiver, bless you. I've been there. I started caring for my mother when I was 16 years old and was her primary caregiver until she passed away when I was 42. I also cared for both of my grandparents when they were dying of cancer. I know firsthand the rewards and challenges of caregiving.

What about travel? Does the idea of taking a vacation with your ill loved one seem like an enormous task? I'm here to tell you it's not only possible, a vacation may be one of the best things you can share with one another.

We all know the purpose of a vacation is to get away and enjoy a great destination. Vacations also offer the opportunity for relaxation and rejuvenation. Going away on a trip with a loved one strengthens your relationship and creates memories.

If it is feasible, I encourage you to find a way to take your ill loved one on a vacation. Venturing out to a local destination is a great start. Vacations create memories you both will treasure. I remember all of the vacations I took with my mother. Now that she's gone, those trips mean so much to me. I want that for you.

So if you are a caregiver and you want to travel, this section is especially for you. I will share my experiences and advice to help you plan a great vacation with your loved one.

Did I miss something or do you have something to add? Email me. I invite you to shoot me an email with any questions or comments you may have. I want you to know you are not alone and you absolutely matter.

Resources for Caregivers

Family Caregiver Alliance

AARP

Caregiver Action Network

National Alliance for Caregiving

2-1-1 Helpline

Area Agencies on Aging

(ARCH) National Respite Network